Compassionate Counsel to All Young Men, Chapter 5
CHAP. V. How sad a Case it is that I have described.
I Have told you the very lamentable case of too many young men, especially rich mens Sons, and Apprentices in this City: I told you before of what concern the state of Youth is to themselves and others. From thence (and alas from sad experience) it's easy to gather the dolefulness of the case of those that are drowned in fleshly Lust, and have sinned themselves into the guilt and danger which I have described. But I will name some parts of the misery more particularly again.
§ 1. Review the second Chapter, and think what a doleful case this is to your selves.
1. Do you not know that you are not Beasts but Men? that have reason given them to know, and love, and serve their Maker? And how sad▪ is it to see a man forget all this, and wilfully brutify himself. Were the Poets fictions true of men turned into Trees, and Birds, and Beasts, how small were the misery in comparison of yours. It is no sin in Bruits to lust, or to eat and drink too much. They have not reason to restrain and rule them; but lest they should kill themselves by excess, God hath made reasonable man their Governor, and moderateth their Appetite in the temper of their natures: But for a reasonable Creature to subject himself to fleshly Appetite, and wilfully degrade his Soul to the rank of Bruits, is worse than if he had been made with the Body and the unreasonableness of Bruits. Are you capable of no better things than these?
§ 2. And what an odious thing is it, when God hath chosen you out of the World to be members of his visible Church, and given you the great priviledge of early Entrance into his holy Covenant, and washt you in the laver of visible Regeneration, and you are vowed to Christ, renouncing the Lusts of the Flesh, the World and the Devil, that you might follow a Crucified Christ in the way of holiness to everlasting Life, that you should so soon prove false, perfidious Traitors and Rebels against him that is your only hope, and by wickedness and Covenant breaking, make your sin greater than that of Infidels, Turks and Heathens, that never were taken into the Church and Covenant of Christ, nor ever broke the Vows which you have broken, nor so cast away the mercys which you had received.
§ 3. And what a doleful case is it, that so much of your Minds, and Love, and Delight, which were all made for God, should be so misimployed▪ even in your strength when they should be most vigorous? and all worse than cast away on filth and folly? If your Souls be more worth than your Money, it is more folly and loss to misimploy and abuse your Souls, your Reason, Love, and your Delight, than to abuse or cast away your Money. And what a Traitor or Murderer deserveth, that would give his Money to hire one to kill the King, or his Neighbour, I suppose you know; and what deserveth he that will use not only his mony, but himself, his soul, his thoughts, his love, his desire and pleasure against the most glorious God that made him. That you cannot hurt him is no thanks to you; while you break his Laws, and deny him your Love and Duty, and love more that one thing which only he hateth, and will never be reconciled to.
§ 4. And how doleful a case is it, that all the Care, and Love, and Labour of your Parents, Masters, and Teachers should be lost upon you? God hath made all this their great Duty for your good; and will you despise God and them, and wilfully for nothing reject it all? Shall all the pain of a Child-bearing Mother, and all her trouble and labour to breed you up, and all your Parents care to provide for you, be but to breed up a slave for the Flesh, the World, and the Devil, and a firebrand for Hell? Shall godly Parents Prayers for you, and Teaching, and Counsel of you, and all their desire and care for your Salvation, be despised by you, and all forgotten and cast away for a swinish Lust?
§ 5. And how doleful a case is it, that so much of so short a Life should be lost, and a thousand times worse than lost; even turned into sin, to prepare for misery, when alas the longest Life is little enough for our important work, and quickly gone, and the Reckoning and Judge are hard at hand? All the Wealth, Wit or Power in the World, cannot bring or buy you back one hour▪ of all that precious time, which you now so basely cast away. O how glad would you be of a little of it ere long, on the tearms that now you have it, when you lie dying, and perceive that your souls are unready to appear before a righteous God! Then O for one year more of precious time! O that you knew how to call again the time which you cast away on sin! You will then perceive with a terrified Conscience, that time was not so little worth as you once thought it, nor given you for so base a work; yea, if God in mercy bring you hereafter to true Conversion, O how it will wound your hearts, to think how much of your Youth was so madly cast away, while your God, your Souls, and everlasting hopes, were all neglected and despised!
§ 6. And alas, if you should be cut off in that unholy, miserable Estate, no heart on earth can sufficiently bewail your case! How many thousand die young, that promised themselves longer pleasure in sin, and Repentance after it? O foolish sinners! Cannot you so long borrow the use of your reason, as to think seriously whither you must go next? Do you never think when the small Pox or a Feaver hath taken away one of your Companions, whither it is that his Soul is gone? Have you your Wit for nothing but to taste the sweetness of Drink or Lust, which is as pleasant to a Dog or Swine as to you? O little you know what it is to die! what it is for a Soul to leave the Body, and enter into an endless World! To come to judgment for all his sins, and all his ill spent days and hours, and for choosing the pleasures of a Swine before Heaven, and the pleasures of a Saint. Little know you what it is for Devils presently to take away to Hell a wretched Soul which they have long deceived. I tell you the thought of appearing before God, and Christ, and Angels in another World, and entring on an endless state, is so dreadful, even to many that have spent their lives in holy preparation, and are indeed in a safe Condition, that they have much ado to overcome the terror of Death. Even some of Gods own faithful Servants are almost overwhelmed, when they think of so great a change: And though the belief of God's Love and the heavenly Glory do support them, and should make them long to be with Christ, yet, alas, Faith is weak, and the Change is great beyond our Comprehension, and therefore feared. O then in what a Case is a wicked, unpardoned, unprepared Wretch, when his guilty soul must be torn from his Body, and dragged in terror to hear its doom, and so to the dreadful Execution? Sinners! Is this a light matter to you? Doth it not concern you? Are you not here mortal? Do you not know what Flesh is, and what a Grave is? And are not your abused Souls immortal? Are you so mad as to forget this? Or so bad as not to believe it? Will your not believing it make void the Justice and the Law of God, and save you from that Hell, which only believing could have saved you from? Will not the fire burn you, or the Sea drown you, if you can but run into it drunk or winking? Is feeling, remediless feeling easier than believing God in time? Alas! What should your believing Friends do to save you? They see by Faith whither you are posting: They foresee your terror and undone case; and fain, if possible, they would prevent it: But they cannot do it without you. If you will not consent and help your selves, it is not the holyest nor wisest Friends in the World that can help you. They would pull you out of the fire in fear, and out of the mouth of the roaring Lion, but you will not be delivered! They call and cry to you, O fear God, and turn to him while there is hope; and you will not let Conscience and Reason be awakened; but those that go asleep to Hell, will be past sleeping there for ever. O run not madly into the everlasting Fire.
§ 7. And indeed your sleepy security and presumption doth make your case more dangerous in itself, and more pittiful to all that know it. O what a sight is it to see a man go merry and laughing towards damnation, and make a jeast of his own undoing? To see him at the brink of Hell, and will not believe it? Like a mad man boasting of his Wit, or a drunken man of his Sobriety: Or as the Swine is delighted when the Butcher is shaving his Throat to cut it: Or as the fatted Lambs are skipping in the pasture, that to morrow must be kill'd and eaten: Or as the Bird sits singing when the Gun is levelled to kill him: Or as the greedy Fish runs striving which shall catch the Bait, that must presently be snatched out of her Element, and lie dying on the Bank.
But because I touch'd much of this in the second Chapter, I will pass by the rest of your own Concerns, and a little further consider how sad the case of such wretched Youths is also unto others.
§ 8. And if Parents be wise and godly, and understand such Childrens case, what a grief must it needs be to their hearts, to think that they have begot and bred up a Chlld for Sin and Hell, and cannot make him willing to prevent it? To see their Counsel set at nought, their Teaching lost, their Tears despised, and an obstinate Lad seem wiser to himself than all his Teachers, even when he is swallowing the Devil's Bait, and cruelly murdering his own Soul. [Ah! thinks a believing Father and Mother, have I brought thee into the World for this? Hath all my tender, natural Love so sad an issue? Is this the fruit of all my sorrows, my care, and kindness, to see the Child of my Bowels, whom I dedicated in Baptism to Christ, to make himself the Child of the Devil, the Slave of the Flesh and World, the Enemy of God and Holiness, and his own destroyer? and all this wilfully, obstinately and against all the Counsel, and means that I can use. Alas! must I breed up a Child to become an Enemy to the Church of God, into which he was baptized? and a Souldier for Satan against Christ? Must I breed up a Child for Hell, and see him miserable for ever? and cannot persuade him to be willing to be saved.] O what a heart breaking must this be to those, that Nature and Grace have taught to love them, with tenderness, even as themselves!
§ 9. But if they be wicked Parents, and as bad themselves, the misery is far greater, though they yet feel it not: For,
1. As the Thief on the Cross said to his Companion, Luk. 23.40, 41. Thou art in the same Condemnation, and we suffer justly; for we receive the due reward of our deeds. Wicked Parents, and wicked Children are in the same Gall of bitterness and Bond of Iniquity! They sinned together, and they must suffer for ever together, if true Faith and Conversion do not prevent it.
2. And it is their wickedness which was much of the cause of their Childrens sin and misery: And their own deep guilt will be more to them than their Childrens suffering: God and Conscience will say to them ere long, [O cruel Parents! that had no mercy on your Children, or your selves! What did Nature teach you to love more, than your selves and your Children? And would you wilfully and obstinately be the ruine of both? You would not have done as the mad Idolaters, that offered their Children in fire to Moloch: And will you offer them by sin to Satan and to Hell? Had a Serpent stung them, or a Bear devoured them, they had done but according to their Nature: But was it natural in you to further their damnation? This was work too bloody for a Cannibal, too cruel for an Enemy, fitter for a Devil than a Father or Mother. As your Child had from you his vicious nature, it was your part to have endeavoured his Sanctification and Recovery: You should have taught him betime to know the corruption of his nature, and to seek and beg the Grace of Christ; to know his God, his duty, the evil of sin, the danger of temptations, and his everlasting hopes and fears: You should have taught him to know what man hath done against himself, by disobeying and departing from his God, and what Jesus Christ hath done for his Redemption, and what he himself must do to be saved: You should have taught him early how to live, and how to die, and what to seek, and what to shun: You should have given him the Example of a holy and heavenly mind and life: You should have watch'd over him for his safety, and unweariedly instructed him for his Salvation: But you led him the way to despise God's Word, and set light by Christ, and Holiness, and Heaven, to hate Instruction and Reproof, to spend the Lords day in idleness or worldly vanity, and to seek first the World, and the prosperity of the Body, and glut the Flesh with sinful pleasure. What wonder if a Serpent breed a Serpent, and quickly teach him to hiss and sting, and if Swine teach their young to feed on dung and wallow in the mire? This is part of the fruit of your worldliness, fleshliness, ungodliness, and neglect of your own▪ Salvation and your Childs. Now he is as you are, a slave of sin, and an heir of Hell: Was this it that you vowed him for to God in Baptism? Was it to serve the Flesh, the World, and the Devil, against our God, our Saviour, and our sanctifier? Or did the mistake of the Liturgy deceive you, to think that it was not you, but the God-Fathers, that were bound by Charge and Vow to bring him up in the Faith and Fear of God, and teach him all that a Christian should know for his Soul's Health: Was it not you that God bound to all this? The sin and misery of your Child now is so far your curse, as you are guilty of it and will add to your misery for ever.] Such are the sorrows that wicked Parents and wicked Children do prepare, and heap on one another. Such miseries will come; but woe to those by whom they come, it had been good for that man that he had never been born.
§ 10. And it is no small grief to faithful Ministers, to see their labour so much lost; and to see so much evil among their flocks, and such sad Prognosticks of worse to come. He is no true Minister of Christ (as to his own acceptance and Salvation) whose heart is not set on the winning, and sanctifying, and saving of Souls. What else do we study for, preach for, live for, long for, suffer for in our Work? All faithful-Teachers can say with Paul, that they are willing to spend and be spent for them, and now we live if ye stand fast in the Lord. 2 Cor. 12.15. 1 Thes. 3.8. He told them weeping of those that were Enemies to the Cross of Christ, whose God was their Belly, who glory in their shame, and mind earthly things, instead of a Conversation in Heaven. Phil. 3.18, 19. When God hath blessed us with the comfortable enjoyment of many ancient, holy Christians, who are the beauty and honour of the Assemblies, and Death calls home one of them after another to Christ, and the rest are ready to depart: Alas! Must a seed of Serpents come after them? Must those take their places to our grief and shame, who are bred up to the World and Flesh, in Drunkenness, Fornication, and Enmity to God and a holy Life? O what a woful change is this!
And if any be like to be the stain and Plague of the Church, it is such as these: If we preach holy truth to them, Lust cannot love it: If we tell them of Gods word, the fleshly mind doth not savour it, nor can be subject to it. Rom. 8.5, 6, 7. If we reprove them sharply, they smart and hate us: If we call them to Confession and Repentance, their Pride and Carnality cannot bear it: If we excommunicate them for Impenitency, as Christ requireth, or but deny them the Sacrament as unmeet, they rage against us as our fiercest Enemies: If we neglect Discipline, and admit Swine to the Communion of Saints, we harden and deceive them, and flatter them in their sin, pollute the Church, and endanger our Souls by displeasing the chief Pastor. What then shall we do with these self-murthering, ungodly men?
Many of them have so much Reverence of a Sacrament, or so little regard of it, that they never seek it, but keep away themselves: Perhaps they are afraid, left they eat and drink damnation to themselves, by the prophanation of holy things: But do they think, that it is safe to be out of the Church and Communion of Saints, because it's dangerous to abuse it? Are Infidels safe, because false hearted Christians perish? What if breaking your Vows and Covenant be damnable? Is it not so to be out of the holy Covenant? What if God be a consuming fire to those that draw near him in unrepented heinous sin? Is it therefore wise or safe to avoid him? Neither those that come not to him, nor those that come in their hypocrisie and reigning sin shall be saved.
And yet what to do with these self-suspenders we know not? Are they still Members of the Churches, or are they not? If they are, we are bound to call them to Repentance, for forsaking the Communion of Saints in Christs commanded Ordinance: If they are not, we should make it known, that Christians and no Christians may not be confounded, and they themselves may understand their case. And neither of these can they endure: But for dwelling in the Parish, and hearing the Liturgy and Sermons, must still pass for Church Members, lest Discipline should exasperate and further lose them. This is that Discipline which is thought worthy the honour of Episcopal Dignity and Revennues, and is supposed to make the Church of England the best in the world, by the same men that would rage, were Discipline exercised on them; and must either be admitted to the Sacrament in a life of Fornication, Drunkenness, Sensuality, and Prophaneness, without any open Confession, Repentance, and Reformation, or else must pass for Church Members without any exercise of Discipline, while they shun the Sacramental Communion of the Church. Such work doth wickedness make among us.
§ 11. Indeed these are the men that are the trouble of Families, the trouble of Neighbours, the trouble of good Magistrates, the shame of bad ones, and the great danger of the Land. All the foreign Enemies whom we talk so much against, and fear, are not so hurtful and dangerous to us as these: These that spring out of your own bowels: These that are bred up with care, and tenderness, and cost in your houses: These that should succeed godly Ancestors in Wisdom and well doing, and be their glory. Who plot against us but home bred sinners? Who more hate the good and persecute them? Who are more malignant Enemies of Godliness, and scorners of a holy Life, and hinderers of the Word of God, and Patrons of Prophaneness, and of Ministers and People that are of the same mind? If England be undone (as the Eastern Churches, and much of the Western are undone) it will be by your own carnal, ungodly Posterity.
He that is once a slave to Satan and his fleshly Lust, is ready for preferment, or a reward, to be a slave to the Lust of any other. He that is false to his God and Saviour, after his Baptismal Vows, is unlike to be true to his Country, or his King, if he have but the bait of a strong temptation: And he that will sell his Soul, his God, and Heaven for a Whore, or for to please his Appetite, it's like will not stick to betray Church, or State, or his dearest Friend, for provision to satisfie these Lusts. Can you expect that he should love any man better than himself? A wicked, fleshly, worldly man is a soil for Satan to sow the seeds in, of any sort of actual sin, and is fuel dryed or tinder for the sparks of Hell to kindle in. Will he suffer much for God or his Country, who will sell Heaven for nothing? An evil Tree bringeth forth evil Fruit. If he hath the heart of an Achan, a Gehazi, an Achitophel, no wonder if he hath their Actions and their Reward. If he be a Thief and bear the Bag, no wonder if Iudas sell his Master.
§ 12. And these wretches if they live, are like to be a Plague to their own posterity: Woe to the Woman that hath such an Husband! And how are the Children like to be bred, that have such a Father? Doth not God threaten punishment to the third and fourth Generation of them that hate him, and to visit the iniquity of the Fathers on the Children? Were not the Children of the old World drowned, and those of Sodom and Gomorrah burned, and Achans stoned, & Dathans & Abirams swallowed up, and Gehazi's struck with Leprosie, &c. for their Fathers sins? And the Amalekites Children all destroyed, and the posterity of the Infidel Jews forsaken▪ the Curse coming on them and on their Children? And as their Children are like to speed the worse for such Parents sins, so are such Parents like to be requited by their Children. As you shamed and grieved the hearts of your Parents, so may your Children do by you: And by that time it's like, if Grace convert you not, though you have no hatred to your own sins, worldly Interest may make you dislike your Childrens. Their Lust and Appetite doth not tempt and deceive you, as your own did: Perhaps when they shame your Family, debauch themselves with drink and Whores, and consume the Estates which you sold your Souls for, you may perceive that sin▪ is an evil and destructive thing, especially when they proceed to despise and abuse your persons also, and to desire your Death, and be a weary of you; sooner or later you shall know better what sin is.