Compassionate Counsel to All Young Men, Chapter 2
CHAP. II. To begin betimes to live to God, is of unspeakable importance▪ to your selves.
FOR, 1. You were betimes solemnly Dedicated to God, as your God, your Father, your Saviour▪ and your Sanctifier, by your Baptismal Vow. And as that was a great Mercy, it obliged you to great Duty: You were capable in Infancy of that holy Dedication and Relation; and your Parents were presently obliged as to Dedicate you to God, so to Educate you for God: And as soon as you are capable of performance, the Vow is upon your selves to do it. If your Childhood is not presently obliged to Holiness, according to your natural capacity, no doubt your Vow and Baptism should have been also delayed. Little think many that talk against Anabaptists, how they condemn themselves by the Sacred Name of Christians, while they by perfidious Sacriledge deny God that which they Vowed to him.
2. All your time and life is given you by God, for one End and Use; and all is little enough; and will you alienate the very beginning, and be Rebels so soon?
3. The youngest have not assurance of Life for a day, or an hour. Thousands go out of the World in youth. Alas, the Flesh of young men is corruptible, liable to hundreds of Diseases, as well as the old. How quickly may a vein break, and cold seize on your head and lungs, and turn to an uncurable Consumption? How quickly may a Fever, a Pleurisie, an Impostume, or one of a thousand Accidents, turn your Bodies to corruption? And O that I knew how to make you sensible how dreadful a thing it is to die in an unholy state, and in the guilt of any unpardoned sin? An unsanctified Soul, that hath lived here but to the flesh, and the world, will be but fewel for the fire of Hell, and the wrathful Justice of the most holy God. And though in the course of undisturb'd Nature, young men may live longer than the old, yet Nature hath so many disturbances and crosses, that our lives are still like a Candle in a broken Lanthorn, which a blast of wind may soon blow out. To tell you that you are not certain in an unsanctified state; to be one day or hour more out of Hell, I expect will not move you so much as the weight of the Case deserveth, because meer possibility of the greatest hurt, doth not affect men when they think there is no probability of it. You have long been well, and long you hope to be so: But did you think how many hundred Veins, Arteries, Nerves, must be kept constantly in order, and all the blood and humours in due temper; and how the stopping of one vein, or distemper of the blood, may quickly end you; it would rather teach you to admire the merciful providence of God, that such a body should be kept alive one year.
4. But were you sure to live to maturity of Age, alas! how quickly will it come? What haste makes Time? How fast do Daies and Years roll on? Methinks it is but as a few daies since I was playing with my School-fellows, who now am in the 66th year of my Age: Had I no service done for God, that I could now look back upon, I should seem as if I had not lived. A thousand years, and one hour, are all one (that is, nothing) when they are past. And every year, day and hour of your lives hath its proper work: And how will you answer for it? Every day offereth you more and more mercies; and will you despise and lose them? If you were Heirs to Land, or had an Annuity, which amounted but to an hundred pounds a year, and you were every day to receive a proportionable part of it, or lose it; would you lose it through neglect, and say, I will begin to receive it when I am old? Poor Labourers will work hard all the day, that at night they may have their wages: And will you contemptuously lose your every daies mercies, your safety, your communion with God, your daily blessings and his grace, which you should daily beg, and may daily receive?
5. Either you will Repent and live to God, or not; if not, you are undone for ever: Oh how much less miserable is a Dog, or a Toad, than such a sinner! But if God will shew you so great mercy, oh how will it grieve you to think of the precious time of Youth, which you madly cast away in sin! Then you will think, O what Knowledge, what Holiness might I then have got! What a comfortable life might I have lived! O what daies and years of mercy did I cast away for nothing! Yea, when God hath given you the pardon of your sin, the tast of his love, and the hopes of Heaven, it will wound your hearts to think that you should so long, so unthankfully, so heinously offend so good a God, and neglect so merciful a Saviour, and trample upon Infinite Divine Love, for the love of so base a freshly pleasure. That ever you should be so bad, as to find more pleasure in sinning, than in living unto God.
6. And be it known to you, if God in mercy convert and save you, yet the bitter fruit of your youthful folly may follow you in this World to the grave. God may forgive the pains of Hell to a penitent sinner, and not forgive the temporal chastisement to his flesh. If you waste your Estate in Youth, you may be poor at Age: If you marry a wicked Wife, you may feel it till death, notwithstanding your Repentance: If by drinking, gluttony, idleness, or filthy lust, you contract any uncurable Diseases in Youth, Repentance may not cure them till death. All this might easily have been prevented, if you had but had fore-seeing Wisdom. Beggary, Prisons, Shame, Consumptions, Dropsies, Stone, Gout, Pox, which make the lives of many miserable, are usually caused by youthful sins.
7. And if ever you think to be men of any great wisdom, and usefulness in the World, to your selves or others, your preparations must be made in Youth. Great Wisdom is not got in a little time. Who ever was an able Lawyer, Physician, or Philosopher, without long and hard Study? If you will not learn in the Grammar-Schools in your Childhood, you will be unfit for the University at riper Age; and if when you should be Doctors, you are to learn to Spell and Read, your shame will tell you, that you should have sooner begun. O that you well knew how much of the safety, fruitfulness and comfort of all your after-life, dependeth on the preparations of your Youth! on the Wisdom and the Grace which you should then obtain! As mens after trading doth on their Apprentiship!
8. And O what a dreadful danger is it, lest your youthful sin become remediless, and custom harden you, and deceivers blind you, and God forsake you for your wilful resistance of his Grace! God may convert old hardened sinners: But how ordinarily do we find, that Age doth but answer the preparations of Youth, and the Vessel ever after savoureth of the Liquor which first throughly tainted it: And men are but such as they learned to be and do at first. If you will be perfidious breakers of your Baptismal Vows, it's just with God to leave you to your selves, to a deluded understanding, to think evil good, and good evil, to a seared conscience, and a hardened heart, and as past feeling, to work uncleanness with greediness, Ephes. 3.18. and to fight against Grace and your own Salvation, till Death and Hell convince you of your madness. O sport not with the Justice of a sin-hating God! Play not with sin, and with the unquenchable fire! Forsaking God, is the way to be forsaken of him. And what is a forsaken soul, but a miserable Slave of Satan?
9. Yea, did you but know of what moment it is, to prevent all the heinous sins, that else you will commit, you would make haste to Repent, though you were sure to be forgiven. Forgiveness maketh not sin to be no sin, or to be no evil, no shame, no grief to the soul that hath committed it. You will cry out, O that I had never known it! To look back on such an ill-spent life, will be no pleasant thought. Repentance, though a healing work, is bitter; yea, oft-times exceeding bitter: Make not work for it, if you love your peace.
10. And is it a small thing to you, that you are all this while doing hurt to others? And drawing them to sin, and plunging them into that dangerous guilt, which can no way be pardoned but by the blood of Christ, upon true Conversion: And when they have joyned with you in lust and fleshly pleasure, it is not in your power to turn them, that they may joyn with you in sound Repentance: And if not, they must lie in Hell for ever: And can you make a sport of your own and other mens damnation? But this leadeth me to the Second Point. I have shewed you of what vast concernment it is to your selves to begin betimes a holy life. I will next shew you of what concernment it is to others.